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Dave Dellinger: The Beloved Community

An interview by Roderick MacIver

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On "The Beloved Community":

I first started using the term “The Beloved Community” when I went south during he so-called civil rights days. That was around 1938. We were arrested for going to the black section in a segregated movie theater but we didn't serve time or anything.

The civil rights period began in December 1955 when Rosa Parks refused to go to the back of the bus and ED Hutton, a sleeping car porter bailed her out and helped organize the Montgomery bus boycott, over the original objection of Martin Luther King, who didn't think that was the way to go about it. Several times I was involved in marches in the South. One of the earliest times when I stayed with a black family, the mother said to me that she couldn’t take her children shopping because they couldn’t use the toilets downtown, and if they tried to do it in the alleyway, they would probably get arrested.

We would watch the cars going by and would wonder if they were going to stop and throw a bomb. She said, `Oh, its so nice to have you become a part of our Beloved Community.’ The Beloved Community was a term often used in the South by those dedicated to the equality and human rights of all people. I've used it ever since. Equality and the sanctity of every human being, including the prisoners, who had done terrible things, but are still human beings and still have the spark of the divine in them. Which is what I found out in case after case after case. Including my bank robber friend.

After the 1968 Democratic Convention, the so-called trial of the Chicago Eight or the Chicago Seven, I slept on the floor and the toilet had over run and we were lying in the wet from the toilets. Eventually I ended up in a cell with a bank robber. I never forget his saying to me, "You know, you don't need a knife or a jimmy or a gun if you have the right other materials. If you own stocks and bonds or have money in the bank, then you don't need to steal and end up in prison. Some people rob banks and other people become bankers and rob the people."

We have a class society where some people, because of their race or ethnic group or because of their birth into the lower classes are treated as sub-human. You could protect yourself and close your eyes, but everywhere I go I see people who are unhappy. Not just poor people. I grew up discovering in my well-to-do neighborhood that a lot of people who had all kinds of material things still were not happy. The happy people have always seemed to be people who did some little token thing well, which could be anything from having a garden and being close to nature, or who worked with their hands to produce something useful. Or my father, who had more compassion than most people. When we would go out together, my father would always stick up for the waitress who might have brought the wrong food, or food that was overcooked.

When I took bread to the poor they called me a saint, when I asked why they were poor, they called me a communist. Nobody ever called my father a communist because he didn't question the economic system. At the very end of his life, on his deathbed, he told me that he was glad I had lived my life the way I had. He said that he wished that somehow or other he had been able to live that way. Of course, I told him about the waitresses and all the others ways and said that he was an inspiration to me. So in a way, he was a part of my Beloved Community.

As children, we picked up more from the way our parents acted than what they said. What they said was often very brutal or racist. But they treated individual human beings as honored entities.


On "Movements For Social Change":

The danger of working to eliminate oppression and discrimination and the injustices in the world is that you can become part of a movement that, either because it lacks a sense of humor, or isn't connected enough with spiritual things, with nature or art or music, becomes self-righteous. People come to believe that others who don’t think like they do are not good people. That crept into the movements for social change at the end of the 1960s.

You asked earlier how I keep going. Well, I keep going because I don't think that you can judge the truth of a way of life by how much change it effects within a short period of time. If nothing else, you are living the way you believe in living. If nothing else, you may be sowing seeds. Who is to say when those seeds will come to fruit? I think it is arrogant of people to think that they have to succeed in their goals.

Way back, maybe in the 1940s when I would go to Washington to demonstrations, I got strength from them, because even in a smaller demonstration you knew that there were people from many different counties and towns, who thought like you did, from a Beloved Community. But I also saw the tendency to become a little self-righteous. `We know the truth’ and so forth. But anyway I decided I would not go to Washington or any other city for a demonstration for peace and justice unless I also, before I left, went to a museum, an art gallery or a concert. Sometimes I had to get out of prison before I did. On the whole, I have done that ever since. Most recently, in August 1996, when we demonstrated again outside the Democratic National Convention, I was arrested for calling for the release of political prisoners like Leonard Pelletier and Mumia BuJamal and Linda Evans and so forth. The afternoon before my plane left, I was going to go to a concert -- symphony orchestra – but they were sold out. We tried to go to a museum but it was closed because of the convention that night. So as soon as I got home I went to the first chamber music recital I could.

I don't have faith that we are going to change the world, or that I am going to change the world. But I often quote Charlie Parker, the great jazz musician, who said "Jazz comes from who you are, where you've been and what you've learned. If you don't live it, it won't come out of your horn." And I say to people, spiritual values come from whom you are, where you've been or what you've learned. If you don't live it, it won't come out of your horn."

On "The Courage of Conviction":

When I would stand by my beliefs in prison, war resistant activities, the prison officials threatened to transfer me to a prison where the inmates would definitely kill me. Ordinarily that kind of thing didn't frighten me but one night in solitary, I faced one of the biggest crisis of my life. I felt that to continue with what I believed would isolate me and probably lead to death. I was in a cold sweat over it for a few hours. And then sometime before I went to sleep, it was like I died. I faced my death and concluded that I was ready for it. I hesitate to use the words, but I came back to life. Spiritually. And for a quite a few years after that it didn't matter. When I was in Albany, Georgia and some guy was following me with an open knife, and I expected him to stick it in my back any minute, I wasn't afraid. When I was thrown into a jail in Americus Georgia and the guy who threw me in with the white prisoners said, `This is one of those white adjutators from up New York (not true) who says that you should eat with the niggers and use the same toilets (true) and so take care of him.' And somehow or other, I wasn't afraid. Somehow or other I had enough confidence or self-assurance that I didn't care if I was killed so somehow I was able to reach out to them.

The first time when that really left me in a serious way, was in 1967 when I was sent bombs in the mail, and one of them arrived New Years Eve. It looked like a box of scotch. If I had opened it in the normal way, a hand grenade would have gone off. Finally, I opened the package from the bottom and saw black powder and wires. I felt horror because my first grandchild and all of my children were there.

Courage is not really an issue because if one feels strongly about something, one acts in accord with it. It may seem like courage to somebody else, but it is really conviction. I think of an example. I know a family who had a member of their family murdered and they have reached out to the parents of the murderer. As one of them put it: `I lost a son and he lost a son.' And so he went to see them. That could be called courage. Or a mother who lost a daughter demonstrating outside a prison against the execution of the man convicted of the murder. If you are not spiritual in the sense that I believe in being, and if you don't believe in forgiveness, if those are abstractions, then it would take courage to visit the murderer. But if you feel within yourself the unity of human beings, including those who have done terrible things, and feel compassion, that will lead you to reach out. Even if the words don’t come at first.

On "Integrity":

I think you have to live your beliefs. You may experience oppression and hatred against you, but if somewhere in your life you experience forgiveness for the things you have done, then you can go from there to finding the courage to live up to your beliefs.

I think that human beings are body, mind and soul and integrity means combining body mind and soul so that they are all part of you. If we lack any one of them, the others are a little less valid.


On "Love":

Sometimes I capitalize Love. The problem in our society is that first of all we are taught that happiness and success come from gaining more power, privilege, material goods than one's neighbors or other people. That does not lead to integrity or fulfillment or courage. One of the early inspirations of the sixties came from people who knew that their parents had more than adequate material things but still weren't happy. The combination of that knowledge, plus the example of young black people in the south who did sit-ins at Woolworths and places like that, led us to challenge a world in which people do not love other people.

Real love is not falling in love with an individual, although that can be a pathway to real love. But real love comes from becoming aware of what I sometimes call the divine spark or the Buddha qualities within every human being. It’s there if you look for it.

Somewhere in the book I say that given the falseness of our society, there is a tendency for people not to say something until they think it will get a good response. In other words to cater to the falseness of society and not saying things frankly that might offend people. Somewhere I say that the beginning of a new life and a new kind of love is to be willing to become completely naked with one person. But it is easier to take your clothes off and have sex than it is to be completely naked. But you can be naked with someone you don't have sex with. Or the wonderful thing when a relationship that involves sex works right is that you are not only naked in the body but are naked in the soul. You say things that express your nakedness as well as your unity.

I don't have any role models. I believe in being true to yourself and learning from other people.

From The Brothers Karamazov by Dostoyevsky:

Above all, love little children, for they are here to arose our tenderness, to purify our hearts, and in a sense to guide us. My brother, a youth who was dying, asked the birds to forgive him. That may sound absurd, but when you think about it, it makes sense, for everything is like the ocean. All things flow and are indirectly linked together. If you push here, something will move at the other end of the world. It may be madness to beg the birds for forgiveness, but things would be better for the birds, for the children, and for every living being, if we were nobler than we are. My friends, be joyful like children, like the birds.

If you meet someone who shares that joy with you, and loves little children like you do, be glad and go into each others arms or something like that.

On "Spirituality":

I hated church, but I was always a good reader. Shelley referred to a particular passage from the New Testament, and to my utter surprise I fell in love with the New Testament. But I was just as selective as the minister was. The minister in the church that I hated always talked about sin and hell fire and damnation, and I slipped right by those sections and read how Jesus said "Love your enemies. Do good to them that hate you. Pray for those that spitefully use you. The rich will find it as difficult to get into heaven as a camel passing through the eye of a needle." I am against material poverty and spiritual poverty. I am for simple living.

When I went to divinity school, I doubted that I wanted to be a minister. But I wanted to read the various interpretations of Church history and the bible. Old and New Testaments. I had already been very influenced by Gandhi, who was a Hindu, and had read many books by other Hindus and other non-violent advocates, so I probably already had a strong spiritual emphasis. But I wouldn't call myself necessarily a Christian. By the time I went to divinity school, I was reading Joseph Campbell who said, "The fool hath said in his heart that there is no God, but the greater fool hath said there is a God and he's ours."

I fell in love with my own interpretation of Jesus, even though there are other things in the New Testament that are contrary to everything I do believe. When anybody thinks that they know the whole truth, or that any historic book, whether it be Christian, Hindu, Islam, Jewish, that any one of those things tells the whole truth and you have to believe every word, I think that they are fooling themselves. There are tremendous contradictions within every one of those documents. As a matter of fact, Gandhi said: "I disbelieve in conversion. My efforts should never be to undermine another's faith, but to make him a better follower of his own faith. You may call yourself an atheist, but so long as you feel akin with all human kind, you accept God in practice." It would be better if he had said, `So long as you feel akin with all human kind, you accept what I call God, in practice.'

I have learned something from just about every spiritual group that I have come in contact with. Some of the most positive influences of my life have been atheists. Some atheists are just people who resent the narrowness, authoritarianism and self-righteousness of so many religious groups. But you can't put the deepest values of life into words. I think you have to try to live them, you have to try to imbibe them from other people, including people who disagree with you, imbibe them from nature. I think I say somewhere in the book, it is certainly a part of my approach to life is that I look at a cloud, or a tree, or the face of a child, and it inspires me.

The Second World War:

I did not have a clear cut sense of right and wrong in all issues of life. I had an awful lot to learn. I'm 81 years old now and I'm still learning new things. But when it comes to prison, I was lucky enough that when I graduated from Yale in 1936, the United States was supporting Hitler, just like it supported and rearmed Saddam Hussien, and before Saddam Hussien, the Iranians. America was rearming Hitler. I was an anti-fascist, based again with my experiences with poor Italians and poor Irish. I did not accept the German hostilities toward the Jews. I did not know that much about it, it wasn't that clear, but when I was in Oxford I used to visit Nazi Germany. I went to several bookstores and always asked for the works of one of my favorite poets, Heinrich Heine, who had been banned because he was Jewish.

At one of the stores, the owner went down into the basement and brought up one of the books and suggested I stay in the ghetto. So from then on I stayed in bed & breakfasts in the Jewish area. When I got to Oxford, I found out that a German Rhodes scholar was in my particular college -- New College, Oxford. I assumed he was Nazi, but it turned out he wasn't. He came from a distinguished family, not Jewish by the way. He gave me the names and phone numbers of some of the anti-Nazi movement in Germany. When I went there on vacations, I worked with the anti-Nazi movement.

During that time I and many others, Jewish and non-Jewish, tried to persuade the United States to raise the quota for Jewish immigration, and to stop supporting Hitler’s regime. Well-known people like Thomas Mann and Albert Einstein could get into America, but whole boatloads of Jewish refugees were being turned away. So actually, I did only a year at Oxford, and I decided to come back. I was so besieged in my heart by these people. Of course, we didn't succeed at all. When I went to the Union Theological School, high on the hill over Harlem, I was one of six students who decided to move to and live in Harlem. There was one black student there and a lot of black workers.

Corporate America was deeply involved in rearming and supporting Nazi Germany: IT&T, Ford and General Motors -- built plants in Hitler’s Germany. American Corporations are still doing the same thing -- wherever some dictator makes it easy for them in terms of labor or protects them from environmental requirements. Actually, after the war was over, these corporations received millions of dollars in compensation for the destruction of their plants. They actually supplied the bombs etc. that destroyed those plants.

I did a year and a day in prison before Pearl Harbor was attacked. In August 1939, Hitler signed the Nazi/Soviet Friendship Pact, and the United States knew it would not be able to persuade Hitler to expand eastward into the Soviet Union and destroy communism. The communists wanted Hitler to expand westward and destroy some capitalist countries.

On "Prison":

The first Saturday night in Federal Prison, I walked in with a black man that I had been talking with in the yard, and the guards directed him to sit in the black section and me to sit in the white section, so naturally I sat with him. Just as the movie was about to start, I was dragged out and put in solitary confinement.

I was often put in very close quarters with the most violent inmates. The good-hearted guards, of which there were some, said to me it was a way of teaching me “what the world is really like instead of your idealistic non-violence.” Other guards tried to get the inmates to kill me. Even though I was exposed to people who had committed the most heinous crimes imaginable, I found out that if you treated them with respect and love, and gave them some reason to believe in themselves, maybe because you believed in them, a completely different side to them would come out. For instance, a bank robber who, when he was fourteen years old, had stolen some fruit. Coming from a disadvantaged family and the wrong ethnic group, he was put in reform school. I did worst things than that, and got caught, and my father, Chairman of the local Republican Committee, and a prestigious lawyer, would intervene on my behalf.

Once we even stole the high school car and drove to the swimming hole. My friend was put in reform school for stealing some fruit, and while he was there he was raped by an older inmate. It was so traumatic for him that when he got a chance he escaped. When they found him, they gave him extra time for escaping. He was actually one who I managed to help. He still had ten years to go, but I got a lawyer for him and helped him to get out.

Once, on an elevator, I watched as a Mafia leader was being manhandled. I was in handcuffs, but I put myself between the guard and the inmate. The warden later offered the mafia leader parole if he would kill me, but the mafia leader refused.

Dave’s response when I asked him what meant the most to him from his book (From Yale To Jail):

That part about be naked. Get rid of all of your pretenses. Especially if I’m speaking to people who are old enough to remember the trial of the Chicago Eight, where the judge was so unfair and so forth, I sometimes read the section dealing with the sentencing. I said, “I feel more compassion for you sir, than I do any hostility. I feel that you are a man who has had too much power over the lives of too many people for too many years. You have sentenced people to degrading conditions without being fully aware of what you are doing. You undoubtedly feel correct and righteous as often happens when people do the most abominable things."

Sports have become so ridiculous in the society. The idea is to defeat your neighbor.

If you do your best and your neighbor does his or her best, you enjoy the communion of it and it doesn't matter whether you win or lose. I quote the example of one of my Yale classmates. I was in the lead in a mile race and I looked around and saw that he was running second and the person from the other college was far enough back that I could wait and hold hands and we crossed the finish line together. I actually got a letter from him just before the book came out saying that that was one of the most inspiring things that ever happened to me. I can ståill remember the coach yelling at me "You are a disgrace."

On Federal Elections:

Elections in this country are obsolete now. In fact the U.S. government is obsolete, despite all of the efforts beginning with World War II to become a superpower and control as much of the world's economy as possible, now the multi-national corporations have rendered both the elections and the government obsolete. I am not saying that there are not a few areas where the government has some decisive power, but basically the corporations control both political parties. They control the media, which decides who is presented as a serious candidate for the presidency. Actually, I vote locally and attend Vermont town meetings and speak up there, along with other people, but the national elections have been a farce.

On the Paperback Edition of From Yale To Jail:

The book was originally published in hard cover by Pantheon. By the time the paperback interest developed, I had already become disgusted with Random House. When Pantheon offered me a contract, they had just fired the editor who was responsible for the book. David Rohm, who is now an engaged Buddhist, took over the book.

When David had read a few chapters, he passed the book on to Andre Shiffron, the publisher, and Andre talked to David about doing it into two volumes. Then they fired Andre and the new publisher, Fred Jordan, and I had a wonderful conversation. It ended by me signing a contract. However, he was fired three and a half months before the book was published. There was such a public scandal over firing Andre that they temporarily hired someone else who was progressive to take some of the sting out of it. But when they got rid of Fred, I became what is called in the book business a publisher's orphan. From then on the book was handled by someone in Random House, who had no interest in the book. Above Random House is Advance and above Advance is another corporation and it goes all the way up to S.I. Newhouse, one of the richest men in the world. Newhouse dominates much of book and magazine publishing in the U.S. Random House did everything they could to kill the book – including not filling bookstore orders -- even when I was speaking nearby and had scheduled book signings. Even the bookstore close to my home in St. Johnsbury Vermont couldn't get books. It wasn't until I wrote them citing a clause in my contract that stated that if they were not filling orders, the rights reverted to me after a year. After several letters and phone calls, bookstores started getting books six months after they ordered them.

Fred was the publisher at Pantheon Books ... Someone at Random House took charge, handling the book in ways that reflected the opposition of that multi-national corporation, headed by S.I. Newhouse, to having my thoughts, to having my thoughts, feelings and experiences reach a wide public. Now the rights have reverted to me....

I met Michael and Beth Strong, owners and publishers of Rose Hill Books, of at Dan Berrigan's 75th birthday in New York in May. I talked to them and we basically reached an agreement. Then, coincidentally, I went the next day to War Resister's League to see old friends and so forth and there was Michael Strong, doing volunteer work at War Resister's League. So it has been a good fit.

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